When you’re at a large event, it can be difficult to find and connect with single people. Often there are lots of couples at events, and many people only go out with others – making the bulk of the attendees “non-single”. Dating Dave knows that whether you’re looking for a dance partner, a date, or just someone to chat with, it can be challenging to locate the right person in a sea of people. With a little strategy and some confidence, it’s possible to find single people in a crowd, or at an event of any kind.
Look for body language: When you’re scanning the crowd for potential partners, pay attention to body language. People who are open to meeting new people tend to have more relaxed and open body language, such as uncrossed arms and legs, and a smile on their face. Look for people who are making eye contact and seem approachable.
Join a group: Many events have groups of people dancing or chatting together. Don’t be afraid to join a group and introduce yourself. Engage in the conversation and try to make a connection with someone who catches your eye. If you’re not in a group, be brave and interrupt the group (politely, and without too much drama or impact)… you never know what might happen!
Take a break: If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the crowd, take a break and step away from the noise. Find a quieter area where you can relax and recharge. This could be a nearby bench or a quiet corner of the venue. You may even find someone else who’s taking a break and strike up a conversation.
Attend events that cater to singles: Many events are specifically designed for singles, such as speed dating or singles mixers. If you’re looking for a partner, attend events that cater to singles to increase your chances of meeting someone. Not all singles are there for good reason – so choose carefully!
Make eye contact: Making eye contact with someone can be a powerful way to connect. Look for people who are making eye contact with you and return the gesture. Once you’ve made eye contact, smile and introduce yourself. This never fails (unless the person is blind or has two glass eyes).
Be confident: Confidence is key when it comes to meeting new people. Be confident in yourself and your ability to connect with others. Approach people with a smile and an open attitude, and don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation. Keep your initial conversation polite, non-political, and non-sexual.
Use dating apps: Many dating apps have features that allow you to find and connect with people who are attending the same event as you. Check out these features and use them to your advantage. This does not mean stalking people who say they are attending… but knowing in advance who might come and sending them an introduction text might have some benefits for you.
Finding single people at events can be a challenge, but with the right strategies, it’s possible to make connections. Look for open body language, join groups, take a break, attend singles events, make eye contact, be confident, and use dating apps to increase your chances of finding someone special. Remember to have fun and enjoy the event, regardless of whether you find a partner or not.