Recognizing and decoding body language isn’t some sort of magician’s trick that only a few skilled pickup artists have. It’s a life skill that everyone should know so they can act accordingly. We only tell a small portion of what we feel through verbal communication, the rest is all through body language. While this is a skill that will help you in every facet of life, it is very important in the field of picking up women. Knowing how they really feel will give you the heads up to change your tactic or move in. Let’s take a look at some indicators.

Here is some positive body language:
– When you speak, she leans in. This shows she likes you and finds you interesting.

– Strong eye contact. This is a good sign. She wants to talk to you.

– She gets touchy-feely. This could be anything from placing a hand on your leg or grabbing your hand. She doesn’t mind physical contact.

Here are some negative body language signs. You should probably leave:
– Being physically distant. Maybe you smell bad, or maybe you’re shouting in her ear. Either way, she doesn’t want to be close to you.

– Stiff posture and arms crossed.

There are a few other signs that don’t necessarily mean good or bad:
– Scratching of the chin. She’s thinking things over in her head.

– Resting her chin on their hand, with the pointer finger resting on the cheek. This means she is critical of something you just said. It isn’t necessarily bad, maybe she’s just waiting for you to elaborate. This is typically a sign of unrest.

It is important for you to know these basic signs when talking to a woman. I guarantee if you go out and pay attention, you’ll see these behaviors going on all around the bar. A good piece of advice is to actively pay attention to your own body language, and note how you feel while you’re doing certain things for some insight as to what those cues may mean when women do them. Your body is always talking, and so is theirs.