We all have that friend who flakes out on us. You give your buddy a call, make plans, and then an excuse always pops up at the last minute for why they have to reschedule. It’s frustrating, and it makes you feel unwanted. You wouldn’t want to date someone like that, would you? I’ll answer this one for you- the answer is no, you wouldn’t. So it is a pretty good rule to go by that you don’t date women who flake out and don’t stick to what they say. It’s indicative that there is a lack of trust, and that is a whole different issue that you don’t want to deal with.

The problem with men who date flaky women is that they grow used to this behavior, and will rarely call them out on it. When they become accustomed to being strung along, they lose confidence and trust, and it becomes a bigger issue than someone missing a few dates. A flaky woman isn’t a stupid woman. She’s aware of what she’s doing, and most of the time she either doesn’t see anything wrong with it, are doing it on purpose, or both. The man let’s her get away with it without calling her out on her flakiness, and she sees the weakness that she can take advantage of.

What To Remember When Dating A Flaky Woman: There are perfectly reasonable reasons to flake out on a date. Odds are we’ve all done it and will do it again. It is when this becomes a reoccurring situation that you must take note and address the issue. Just keep in mind after the first time or two that it happens that this may be something you will have to deal with, and don’t talk yourself into thinking that this type of behaviour is acceptable, otherwise you’ll become a victim.

Reasons A Woman May Flake: Most of the time when a woman is a flake with a man, it is because she’s really just not that interested in dating him. It is much easier for a woman to cancel on a date than for her to tell him that she’s just interested in being friends, or not even talking at all. If a woman flakes out the first couple times, it is necessary to keep a calm head on your shoulders and not get upset. This will simply show that you’re out of control. And if she actually had good reasons for flaking out or just didn’t realize what she was doing, this will just seem insulting. You need to address her calmly and reasonably so as not to upset her and appear out of control.

Lessons To Know If You Date A Flaky Woman: If a woman is showing signs of flaking out on a regular basis, you need to understand that you should address the issue with her. If it continues to happen, you should leave the situation. The problem with a girl flaking out stems from her fact that she doesn’t have enough respect for the man or the desire to date him. Showing that you’re too eager can signal to the woman that she can take advantage of you, so have enough respect for yourself to not let the situation get out of control.