Relationship Red Flags

Summershading: Exposing 2025’s Most Toxic Dating Trend

September 11, 2025

As summer 2025 fades, a new dating term has emerged from viral YouTube videos: summershading. This toxic trend describes the act of cooling off a budding romance during the warm months to chase personal freedom, only to keep the other person dangling with minimal effort. Labeled the worst dating [...]

The Brutal Truth About ‘No Texting Until You Meet’ Challenges

July 14, 2025

There’s a new trend doing the rounds on social media, and I have to say, it’s got a lot of people second-guessing their dating flow. The trend? The “No Texting Until We Meet” rule. The idea is simple: once you match on a dating app, you agree not to get into any texting or messaging [...]

Negging Exposed: How to Spot It, Stop It, and Stay True to Your Worth

July 12, 2025

Some dating tactics need to be called out, not because they’re clever, but because they’re corrosive. Negging is one of those tactics. You’ve probably heard the term. It’s been around for years—some say it started in pickup artist circles, others argue it’s been quietly creeping around [...]

Still in Love with Their Ex? Here’s Why You’ll Always Come Second

June 26, 2025

Let’s talk about a hard truth that too many of us ignore when we start falling for someone new: if they’re not over their ex, they’re not ready for you—no matter how sweet, attractive, or convincing they seem. In the early stages of dating, it’s easy to overlook the warning signs. They [...]

Do They Like You or Just the Attention?

June 25, 2025

There’s a certain kind of person in the dating world who makes you feel amazing—until you realise the connection is one-sided. They message often, flirt heavily, like your stories, send heart emojis, maybe even talk about how “into you” they are. But when it comes to making plans, showing [...]

The Emotional Toll of Pocketing in Relationships

June 22, 2025

You’re dating someone. Things feel good. You laugh. You share meals. You sleep over. You’ve met their cat. You’ve even started to share dreams, maybe even hint at a future. But something’s… off. You’re not on their socials. You’ve never met their friends. Family? Not even mentioned. [...]

Why Some Relationships Work – And Others Fall Apart

June 6, 2025

Dating in today’s world is like navigating a minefield in the dark, hoping you don’t step on the wrong thing and blow the whole thing up. One minute things seem perfect – the texts are flowing, the smiles are frequent, and the connection feels electric. But all it takes is one misstep, one [...]

Navigating One-Sided Conversations in Modern Dating

May 27, 2025

You know the type. You’re out on a date, trying to connect, and it’s all going well—until you realise you haven’t said a word in fifteen minutes. They’re still going, oblivious to your silence. You’re nodding politely, holding your wine glass like a lifeline, as they dive deeper [...]