healthy relationships

Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship With Different People

August 9, 2026

Many people reach a frustrating point in dating where the faces change but the emotional story remains familiar. The new person seems different at first—another job, another style, another way of making you laugh—yet several months later you are waiting for clarity, carrying the emotional [...]

Green Flags That Matter More Than Instant Chemistry

August 8, 2026

Online dating advice has trained people to become expert collectors of red flags. We can identify breadcrumbing, love bombing, future faking, emotional unavailability and half a dozen attachment patterns before the starters arrive. Some of that language is useful because it helps people name [...]

The Most Attractive Quality Nobody Talks About Anymore

July 6, 2026

Ask a group of singles what they find attractive in a partner and you’ll usually hear many of the same answers. Confidence will be near the top of the list. A good sense of humour is almost always mentioned. Kindness, intelligence, ambition and physical attraction all receive plenty of [...]

Why Modern Dating Feels Exhausting (And How to Enjoy It Again)

July 6, 2026

If I had a dollar for every time someone told me they were tired of dating, I’d probably be writing this article from a beach somewhere instead of my desk. It’s one of the most common themes I hear at speed dating events, in emails from readers and during conversations with friends. [...]

What Secure People Do Differently During the First Five Dates

July 6, 2026

If there’s one thing I’ve learned after years of introducing singles and watching thousands of first conversations unfold, it’s that confidence and security don’t always look the way people imagine they will. Popular culture often suggests that the most attractive person in [...]

Why So Many Good Relationships End Before They Really Begin

July 6, 2026

One of the saddest conversations I have with singles isn’t about terrible relationships. It’s about the ones that never really had the chance to become anything at all. Every so often someone will tell me about a person they met who was kind, attractive, intelligent and easy to spend [...]

When Early Honesty Brings People Closer Instead of Driving Them Away

July 6, 2026

One piece of dating advice has always made me uncomfortable, and I still hear versions of it today. It usually goes something like this: “Don’t reveal too much about yourself too early. Keep them guessing. Don’t let them know how interested you are. Hold a little bit back because [...]

The Hidden Cost of Constantly Looking for Someone Better

July 6, 2026

One of the greatest paradoxes of modern dating is that we’ve never had more opportunities to meet people, yet so many singles tell me they’ve never found dating more exhausting. On the surface, it doesn’t seem to make sense. We can meet people through dating apps, social events, [...]

The Difference Between Healthy Boundaries and Impossible Expectations

July 6, 2026

One of the biggest changes I’ve noticed in the dating world over the past decade is how often people talk about boundaries. In many ways, that’s a wonderful thing. For years, too many people stayed in unhealthy relationships because they believed they had to tolerate behaviour that made [...]
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