Green Flags

Green Flags That Matter More Than Instant Chemistry

August 8, 2026

Online dating advice has trained people to become expert collectors of red flags. We can identify breadcrumbing, love bombing, future faking, emotional unavailability and half a dozen attachment patterns before the starters arrive. Some of that language is useful because it helps people name [...]

Red Flags and Green Flags in Dating

March 12, 2026

One of the most common questions people ask when they start dating someone new is whether they should trust their instincts about potential red flags. The internet has turned the concept of red flags into a kind of entertainment, with endless lists of supposed warning signs that range from serious [...]

Summershading: Exposing 2025’s Most Toxic Dating Trend

September 11, 2025

As summer 2025 fades, a new dating term has emerged from viral YouTube videos: summershading. This toxic trend describes the act of cooling off a budding romance during the warm months to chase personal freedom, only to keep the other person dangling with minimal effort. Labeled the worst dating [...]

Boy Sober: The 2025 Dating Detox Trend Taking Over

September 11, 2025

In 2025, a refreshing dating trend is sweeping YouTube and social media: “Boy Sober.” This movement, gaining traction among singles, particularly women and non-binary folks, is all about taking a deliberate break from dating to focus on self-discovery, personal growth, and emotional clarity. [...]

The Top Dating Trends Shaping Romance in 2025

September 11, 2025

The dating landscape in 2025 is a vibrant mix of authenticity, technology, and intentionality, reflecting how singles are navigating romance in a post-pandemic world. Viral YouTube videos, from relationship coaches to vloggers, highlight trends that are reshaping how we connect. Drawing from recent [...]