Dating Dave | Auckland Based Dating Coach

I Saw the Red Flags—But I Wanted It to Work

June 11, 2025

I’ve got to admit something that took me years to say out loud: I saw the red flags. I just didn’t want to believe them. I made excuses, told myself I was overthinking, and tried to be “understanding.” Deep down, I knew something wasn’t right. But when you’re craving connection, it’s [...]

The Mindsets That Keep Me Sane in Today’s Dating World

June 11, 2025

Dating these days can feel like running an emotional marathon with no finish line in sight. One minute you’re vibing with someone, the next you’re being ghosted by someone who once said they “could see a future.” It’s wild, confusing, exciting, and draining—all at [...]

The Only Dating Advice That’s Ever Really Worked for Me

June 11, 2025

After years of dates, ghostings, red flags, butterflies, awkward silences, surprise connections, and the occasional heartbreak, I’ve come to a conclusion that might surprise you. The best dating advice I’ve ever received—the only advice that’s truly stood the test of time—is this: be [...]

How I Finally Let Go of My Ex (And You Can Too)

June 11, 2025

used to think moving on was just a matter of time. That one day, you’d wake up and it just wouldn’t hurt anymore. No tears, no triggers, no late-night spirals when a song came on or a photo popped up in your memories. But I’ve come to learn the truth: moving on isn’t passive. It’s not [...]

How to Spot Gold Diggers and Red Flags Without Losing Your Mind

June 11, 2025

There’s a reason I don’t go into first dates wide-eyed and wallet-first anymore. I’ve been burned. I’ve bought the drinks, shouted the dinners, paid for the weekends away—and ended up wondering if any of it actually meant anything. I used to think generosity was attractive. Now I realise [...]

Why Dating Feels So Impossible in 2025

June 11, 2025

I’ve been in the dating scene a long time, but I’ve never seen anything quite like what’s going on in 2025. It’s wild out there. People are more connected than ever, and yet it feels like nobody is truly connecting. I don’t know if it’s the apps, the expectations, or the constant [...]

How to Know If Someone Truly Respects You in a Relationship

June 9, 2025

When it comes to relationships, love is important—but respect is essential. You can feel chemistry, passion, even deep emotional connection with someone, but if they don’t respect you, it’s never going to last. A recent video called “How to Know If Someone Truly Respects You in a [...]

How to Be Irresistible Without Chasing Anyone

June 9, 2025

There’s something undeniably attractive about someone who doesn’t chase, doesn’t beg, and doesn’t try too hard—but still draws people in like a magnet. That kind of energy is rare, and in today’s world of oversharing, swiping, and love games, it stands out more than ever. A recent video [...]

Why Men Lose Interest—And What You Can Do About It

June 9, 2025

It’s one of the most gut-wrenching experiences in dating: things start off great, he’s texting constantly, making plans, saying all the right things—and then, slowly or suddenly, it all fades. The energy shifts. The conversations drop off. He goes from warm to cold, and you’re left [...]

How to Stop Attracting the Wrong People

June 9, 2025

There’s nothing more frustrating than feeling like you keep ending up in the same type of relationship—with the same red flags, the same emotional rollercoasters, and the same disappointing ending. If you’ve ever said to yourself, “Why do I always attract the wrong people?”, you’re not [...]

She’s Not Pulling Away—You’re Just Not Listening

June 9, 2025

We’ve all heard the story before. A guy meets someone amazing. Things feel electric at first—laughs are shared, texts are frequent, the chemistry is real. Then, almost without warning, something changes. She stops replying as quickly. She cancels plans. She says she’s “busy.” And the guy [...]

Dating Anxiety is Real—and You’re Not Alone

June 9, 2025

It’s one of the most common yet least talked-about experiences in the dating world: anxiety. That flutter in your chest before a date, the obsessive second-guessing of texts, the fear of being rejected, misunderstood, or not enough. It doesn’t matter how confident someone looks on the [...]

Why You’re Still Single—and How To Turn It Around

June 9, 2025

It’s a question that quietly haunts a lot of people—why am I still single? And no, it’s not always a reflection of your worth or something you’re doing wrong. But it might be about patterns you haven’t noticed, self-beliefs you haven’t challenged, or habits that quietly sabotage [...]

What 5 Years of Brutally Honest Dating Advice Has Taught Men

June 9, 2025

There’s something incredibly powerful about raw, unfiltered dating advice. When it’s not wrapped in clickbait or trying to sell you a quick fix, you can hear the truth in every word. That’s what makes the video “5 Years of Brutally Honest Dating Advice for Men…” so impactful. It’s not [...]

Why Some Dating Advice Men Still Follow is Leading Them Astray

June 9, 2025

We live in an era where dating advice is everywhere. You can’t scroll through social media without seeing someone declaring what men should or shouldn’t do to be more attractive, more successful, or more alpha. But what if a lot of this advice is, frankly, garbage? That’s exactly what [...]

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