Dating Dave | Auckland Based Dating Coach

The Biggest Mistake People Make When Listing Their Dating Standards

July 6, 2026

If there’s one conversation I’ve had more times than I can count over the years, it’s about dating standards. Whether I’m chatting to someone at one of my speed dating events, answering emails from readers, or simply catching up with friends over coffee, the subject comes up [...]

Why Healthy Relationships Feel Different To Toxic Ones

June 4, 2026

One of the most surprising things that happens when people move from a toxic relationship into a healthy one is that they often feel confused. That might sound strange. After all, shouldn’t a healthy relationship immediately feel better? In many ways it does. There is usually less drama, less [...]

The Biggest Mistakes Men Make On First Dates

June 4, 2026

First dates can be exciting, nerve-racking, hopeful, and occasionally awkward. Most men genuinely want a first date to go well. They want to make a good impression, enjoy the experience, and hopefully create enough connection for a second date to happen. The interesting thing is that most first [...]

When To Walk Away From A Relationship That Isn’t Growing

June 4, 2026

One of the hardest decisions anyone can make in their romantic life is deciding whether to keep fighting for a relationship or whether it is time to let it go. Most people enter relationships with hope. They see potential. They imagine a future together. They believe that with enough effort, [...]

Dating After Fifty: What Actually Matters Now

June 4, 2026

Dating after fifty is a fascinating experience because many of the things that seemed incredibly important in our twenties and thirties suddenly become much less significant, while other qualities become far more valuable. When we are younger, it is easy to get caught up in appearance, status, [...]

Why Confidence Is Attractive But Arrogance Isn’t

June 4, 2026

If you were to ask a group of men what women find attractive, or ask a group of women what men find attractive, one word would almost certainly appear near the top of both lists: confidence. Confidence is one of those qualities that seems to transcend age, appearance, income, education, and [...]

The Hidden Cost of Keeping Your Dating Options Open

June 4, 2026

One of the most common pieces of dating advice people hear today is to “keep your options open.” On the surface, it sounds sensible. After all, if you are single, why wouldn’t you meet multiple people, explore different possibilities, and avoid becoming overly invested too [...]

How To Tell If Someone Is Emotionally Available

June 4, 2026

One of the most important qualities to look for in a potential partner is something that often gets overlooked in the excitement of attraction and romance. That quality is emotional availability. Most people can recognise physical attraction. Most people can identify common interests. Most people [...]

Why Some People Stay Single Even Though They Want Love

June 4, 2026

One of the most common conversations I have with singles is surprisingly not about finding love. It is about understanding why love has not happened yet. Many people assume that if someone is single for a long time, it must be because they enjoy being alone, are extremely picky, or simply are not [...]

The Difference Between Chemistry and Compatibility

June 4, 2026

One of the biggest mistakes I see people make in dating is confusing chemistry with compatibility. In fact, I would go as far as saying that this single misunderstanding is responsible for a huge percentage of relationship disappointment, heartbreak, and frustration. Most people know what chemistry [...]

The Biggest Dating Mistake Smart People Make

June 2, 2026

Intelligence is a wonderful quality. Intelligent people often solve problems effectively, learn quickly, think critically, and make thoughtful decisions. Yet one of the most surprising observations I have made as a dating coach is that intelligence does not automatically make dating easier. In [...]

Why So Many People Confuse Attention With Genuine Interest

June 2, 2026

One of the most common dating mistakes I see today is people confusing attention with genuine interest. On the surface, the two can appear remarkably similar. Someone messages regularly. They like photos. They comment on posts. They flirt. They show enthusiasm. They seem engaged and interested. [...]

The Quiet Habits That Predict Relationship Success Better Than Romance

June 2, 2026

When people imagine successful relationships, they often picture romantic gestures. Candlelit dinners, surprise gifts, weekend getaways, heartfelt declarations of love, and grand acts of affection tend to dominate our cultural understanding of romance. While these experiences can certainly [...]

Why The Right Relationship Often Feels Different From What You Expected

June 2, 2026

One of the most interesting patterns I have observed as a dating coach is that many people eventually find love with someone who does not match the image they originally had in mind. This does not mean they settle or lower their standards. In fact, the opposite is often true. They discover that the [...]

Why Chasing Validation Is Sabotaging So Many Dating Lives

June 2, 2026

One of the most important lessons people can learn about dating has very little to do with attraction, appearance, or relationship skills. It involves understanding the difference between seeking connection and seeking validation. While these two motivations may appear similar on the surface, they [...]

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