Dating Dave | Auckland Based Dating Coach

When They Say ‘I’m Not Ready for a Relationship’—Believe Them

June 25, 2025

There’s a phrase that should stop you in your tracks the moment it’s said:“I’m not ready for a relationship right now.” When someone tells you this, they’re handing you valuable information. They’re giving you insight into where their head and heart are at. And too often, we hear that [...]

Stop Making Excuses for People Who Barely Try

June 25, 2025

There’s a moment in dating where your gut knows the truth—but your heart tries to explain it away. You wait for a reply that never comes, and say, “Maybe they’re just busy.” You suggest meeting up, and they flake again, so you say, “They probably had a lot on.” You try to connect [...]

Do They Like You or Just the Attention?

June 25, 2025

There’s a certain kind of person in the dating world who makes you feel amazing—until you realise the connection is one-sided. They message often, flirt heavily, like your stories, send heart emojis, maybe even talk about how “into you” they are. But when it comes to making plans, showing [...]

When He Disappears and Comes Back: What It Really Means

June 25, 2025

There’s this moment in modern dating that too many people have experienced: the sudden silence. One day you’re chatting, flirting, maybe even making plans. Then… nothing. No replies, no explanation. You start to wonder if you said something wrong, if they’re busy, or if they just [...]

Are They Really Over Their Ex, or Just Hiding the Hurt?

June 25, 2025

Sometimes when you meet someone new, they seem perfect. Funny, attentive, attractive—and just the kind of person you want to build something with. But then, little signs begin to show. They mention their ex a little too often. Their mood swings when you talk about long-term plans. Or they flinch [...]

Stop Settling for ‘Almost’ – You Deserve the Real Thing

June 23, 2025

It always starts with hope. You meet someone. The vibe is great. The connection feels real. You talk every day, share little jokes, maybe even a few secrets. You have chemistry. You’re not official, but you’re not nothing either. You’re just… almost. Almost dating.Almost together.Almost [...]

Stop Trying to Win Them Over – You’re Not in a Competition for Love

June 23, 2025

We’ve all been there. You meet someone who seems perfect. They’ve got that spark, that smile, that mystery. You find yourself leaning in, showing up, doing everything right—maybe even doing more than you normally would. You listen intently, you compliment them often, you initiate plans, you [...]

When She Disappears Without Warning – What It Really Means

June 23, 2025

You thought things were going well. The messages were flirty. The connection felt real. You laughed together, shared stories, maybe even had a few good dates. And then… nothing. Silence. She vanishes. No explanation. No fight. No closure. She just slowly slips away like steam off a coffee cup. [...]

When He Says He’s Not Ready for a Relationship… But Still Talks to You Every Day

June 23, 2025

We’ve all heard it. That classic, softly delivered line: “I’m just not ready for a relationship right now.” And at first, it sounds honest. Respectful even. So you nod. You understand. You say it’s okay. But then… he keeps texting. Keeps liking your stories. Keeps calling late at night [...]

Why He Lost Interest (And What You Can Do About It Without Losing Yourself)

June 23, 2025

Let’s have the conversation most people avoid: why did he lose interest? You were vibing. The messages were flowing. The dates felt great. He complimented your smile, your stories, your energy. He called you “different.” He said he wasn’t like the others. You started to believe maybe, just [...]

Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong People (And How to Finally Stop)

June 23, 2025

Ever caught yourself saying something like, “Why do I always end up with people who treat me like crap?” or “Every person I fall for turns out to be unavailable or toxic…”? Mate, you’re not alone. You’re not broken, either. But you are probably caught in a pattern. And patterns, if [...]

3 Truth Bombs About Love I Wish I Knew Years Ago

June 23, 2025

There are some things about love that no one tells you. Not your mates, not your mum, not the chick from HR who always seems to be planning a wedding. They’re the kind of truths that usually show up at 2am, after another situationship fizzles, or when you’re sitting in your car asking yourself, [...]

Swiping Left Might Just Save Your Sanity

June 23, 2025

There was a time when I thought more matches meant more chances. More dates, more excitement, more possibilities. Like some kind of digital buffet—just keep swiping, keep chatting, keep believing that “the one” might be one more flick of the thumb away. But here’s what they don’t tell you [...]

If I Could Talk to My 20-Year-Old Self About Dating, Here’s What I’d Say

June 23, 2025

If I could sit down across the table from my 20-year-old self—probably full of hope, hormones, and a wildly inaccurate belief that love solves everything—I’d tell him to take a deep breath. And then I’d say: “Mate, we need to talk.” Back then, I thought dating was about finding someone [...]

Gold-Diggers, Ghosters & Gaslighting

June 23, 2025

There’s this moment—sometimes it comes early, sometimes it sneaks in a few weeks deep—when your gut twists and your heart says, Something feels off. You’re in conversation with someone new, someone you met on a dating app, and maybe the chemistry was electric at first. But then, you notice [...]

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