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She’s Not ‘Crazy’—You’re Just Triggered. Here’s How to Own Your Reactions

June 13, 2025

I’m going to say something that might sting a bit—because it stung when I realised it myself. That woman you’re calling “crazy”? She might not be. You might just be triggered. And until you figure out the difference, you’re going to keep repeating the same pattern over and over in your [...]

When You Like Her More Than She Likes You—And How to Handle It With Class

June 13, 2025

There’s a sting that comes with realising you’re more into her than she is into you. It doesn’t matter how old you are, how many relationships you’ve had, or how confident you feel on a good day—it still hits the ego and the heart in equal measure. And if you’re anything like me, [...]

Dating in Your 40s and 50s: It’s Not Too Late, It’s Just Different

June 13, 2025

When I was younger, I used to think dating in your 40s or 50s was some kind of consolation prize. Like you’d missed your shot, and now you were just trying to find someone to settle down with before the lights went out. But now that I’m here myself, I’ve realised something powerful. It’s [...]

Can You Date While Still Healing? My Take as a Bloke Who Tried Too Soon

June 13, 2025

There’s a question that comes up a lot in conversations I have with mates—and I’ve wrestled with it myself too. Can you really date while you’re still healing from a past relationship? The short answer? Yes, you can. But whether you should… well, that’s a whole different conversation. [...]

The Underrated Power of Consistency in Dating

June 13, 2025

There’s a lot of noise out there in the dating world. People talking about attraction, chemistry, looks, confidence, and all the things you supposedly need to stand out. But one word I don’t hear nearly enough, and I think it’s one of the most powerful forces in modern dating, is this: [...]

How to Know When She’s Just Not That Into You (Even if She’s Smiling)

June 13, 2025

It’s one of the most confusing situations in dating, and I’ve been there more than I care to admit—she’s lovely, friendly, maybe even flirty, but something feels off. You’re giving your time, your attention, and your best self, but she doesn’t seem to be matching your energy. Still, she [...]

Texting Games Are for Teenagers—Here’s How to Communicate Like an Adult

June 13, 2025

There’s something really frustrating about modern dating, and it’s this weird unwritten rule that we’re supposed to play games over text. You know what I mean—waiting exactly four hours to reply, pretending you’re busy, carefully wording everything so you don’t seem too keen. It’s all [...]

Weekend Lovers: Can a Once-a-Week Romance Survive Long Term?

June 11, 2025

You count down the days, rush through your Friday, and by the time you see them, it’s hugs, wine, and catching up like no time has passed. For 48 hours, you’re in your little love bubble—sleeping in, laughing, being close. And then, come Sunday night, it’s goodbye again. They go home. You [...]

Attachment Styles Are Trending – But Are You Using Yours as an Excuse?

June 11, 2025

If you’ve been anywhere near TikTok or Instagram in the past year, you’ve probably seen people throwing around terms like “anxious attachment,” “avoidant,” or “secure” like they’re horoscopes. Suddenly, everyone’s diagnosing themselves—and each other—based on attachment [...]

Dating Someone Who’s Emotionally Unavailable: How Long Should You Wait?

June 11, 2025

You meet someone who seems perfect on paper. They’re kind, attractive, smart, and there’s definitely a spark. But something’s missing. They’re inconsistent. They open up one day and shut down the next. They tell you they “really like you” but “aren’t ready” for anything serious. [...]

Texting Etiquette in 2025: Are You Coming On Too Strong… or Not Strong Enough?

June 11, 2025

Texting has become the lifeline of modern dating, but if you’re not careful, it can also be the first thing that ruins a good connection. In 2025, everyone has their phone within reach—but getting someone to respond, or interpreting how they respond, still feels like decoding ancient [...]

When They Love Bomb You Then Vanish – What Just Happened?

June 11, 2025

You meet someone, and it’s fireworks from the start. They can’t stop texting you. They’re planning weekend getaways. They say they’ve never felt this way before. You’re swept up in a romance that feels like a dream. Then—silence. Days go by. You check your phone obsessively. The [...]

Medieval Dating Advice Was Wild (But Weirdly Familiar)

June 11, 2025

I went down a rabbit hole recently and found myself deep in a video about medieval dating advice. Let me tell you, it was part hilarious, part terrifying, and strangely… familiar. You’d think we’ve come a long way in love since the days of jousting and herbal love potions, but honestly? Some [...]

Why I’m Not Taking Dating Advice From TikTok (And Neither Should You)

June 11, 2025

I’ve seen a lot of relationship advice over the years, but nothing quite as confusing, contradictory, and downright chaotic as what’s currently coming out of Gen Z’s corner of the internet. I’m not here to knock an entire generation—I think they’re smart, emotionally aware, and [...]

I Saw the Red Flags—But I Wanted It to Work

June 11, 2025

I’ve got to admit something that took me years to say out loud: I saw the red flags. I just didn’t want to believe them. I made excuses, told myself I was overthinking, and tried to be “understanding.” Deep down, I knew something wasn’t right. But when you’re craving connection, it’s [...]

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Dating Dave

Auckland Based Dating Coach

dating feedback

She’s Not ‘Crazy’—You’re Just Triggered. Here’s How to Own Your Reactions

When You Like Her More Than She Likes You—And How to Handle It With Class

Dating in Your 40s and 50s: It’s Not Too Late, It’s Just Different

Can You Date While Still Healing? My Take as a Bloke Who Tried Too Soon

The Underrated Power of Consistency in Dating

How to Know When She’s Just Not That Into You (Even if She’s Smiling)

Texting Games Are for Teenagers—Here’s How to Communicate Like an Adult

Weekend Lovers: Can a Once-a-Week Romance Survive Long Term?

Attachment Styles Are Trending – But Are You Using Yours as an Excuse?

Dating Someone Who’s Emotionally Unavailable: How Long Should You Wait?

Texting Etiquette in 2025: Are You Coming On Too Strong… or Not Strong Enough?

When They Love Bomb You Then Vanish – What Just Happened?

Medieval Dating Advice Was Wild (But Weirdly Familiar)

Why I’m Not Taking Dating Advice From TikTok (And Neither Should You)

I Saw the Red Flags—But I Wanted It to Work