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Dating in Your 40s and 50s: It’s Not Too Late, It’s Just Different

When I was younger, I used to think dating in your 40s or 50s was some kind of consolation prize. […]

There’s a certain kind of relationship dynamic that took me a long time to recognise—and even longer to stop entertaining. […]

There’s a question that comes up a lot in conversations I have with mates—and I’ve wrestled with it myself too. […]

There’s a lot of noise out there in the dating world. People talking about attraction, chemistry, looks, confidence, and all […]

It’s one of the most confusing situations in dating, and I’ve been there more than I care to admit—she’s lovely, […]

There’s something really frustrating about modern dating, and it’s this weird unwritten rule that we’re supposed to play games over […]

You count down the days, rush through your Friday, and by the time you see them, it’s hugs, wine, and […]

If you’ve been anywhere near TikTok or Instagram in the past year, you’ve probably seen people throwing around terms like […]

You meet someone amazing. They’re kind, grounded, and there’s instant chemistry. They also happen to have kids—and you don’t. Suddenly, […]

You meet someone who seems perfect on paper. They’re kind, attractive, smart, and there’s definitely a spark. But something’s missing. […]

You haven’t slept with anyone else. You haven’t even kissed anyone else. But your partner still seems upset. They saw […]

Let’s be honest—flirting in New Zealand is a subtle art. It’s not flashy. It’s not over-the-top. And it definitely doesn’t […]

Texting has become the lifeline of modern dating, but if you’re not careful, it can also be the first thing […]

You meet someone, and it’s fireworks from the start. They can’t stop texting you. They’re planning weekend getaways. They say […]

I went down a rabbit hole recently and found myself deep in a video about medieval dating advice. Let me […]