To reunite with an old flame needs effort and proper planning. If you are planning to get back your lost girlfriend, you need lots of patience and planning to successfully execute your game plan. Things will not happen out of nowhere. You will need to decide your course of action strategically and remove the obstacles that caused the break up between the two of you in previous times.

For a successful plan, you need to sit and decide what steps would work best. As you are familiar with the strength and weaknesses of your ex, you are in the best position to decide your own course of action. Sometimes relationships break due to impulsive decisions and uncontrolled circumstances, or because of misunderstandings between you and your partner. But if you now feel that it had happened too early in your case, and you wish to attempt to move forward in life with your ex again, you’ll need to work hard to reconcile together.

Here are some basic reconciliation check points, that may help you decide and plan how to get your ex back.

•Introspection- try to locate and understand the reasons behind your break up. You should try to improve on and remove that situation before you get back with your ex.

•Deciding about getting your ex back with a calm mind and rational thinking is very important. If you have recently had break up depression, taking impulsive decisions based on ego may not be a good solution. Instead, give yourself time to heal and to check whether the other person deserves the chance to come back into your life or not.

•Make an initial effort to gauge the possible reaction of your ex, before you propose to reconcile. If she rejects you right in front of others, you may feel bad later on. Leave hints here and there for her to know that you are still interested in her before actually asking her to come back into your life.

•Getting your ex back is not an easy job. Be prepared for lots of emotional dramas, discussions, chats, and consoling. In the long run, however, these efforts will pay off for you, when you actually get your ex back. In principle, you should be ready to do almost anything to get your ex back, if they are that important to you.

If you move on step by step and execute all your actions with reasonable effort, you’ll have a better chance of success in getting your ex back. And I wish you the best of luck. If however, your ex decides not to come back, then accept the rejection in a positive way, remember that you are a great person (even if they don’t recognise that in its entirety), and try to move forward in your life again.